7/2/25-Mental Maintenance for the Messy Middle Days
- Rafaela Ranches
- Jul 2
- 3 min read
Written by: Guest Blogger Marjorie McMillian
We live in a world that spins a little too fast. Between deadlines, dopamine hits from social media, and the quiet pressure to “optimize” every waking hour, the idea of slowing down feels foreign—maybe even irresponsible. Yet, somehow, in the din of all that noise, your mind whispers for something gentler. That’s where self-care creeps in—not as a spa-day slogan, but as a deeply personal commitment to not unravel.
Drinking Water Like You Mean It
You’ve heard it. Drink water. Stay hydrated. But hydration isn’t just some cute wellness hack—it’s fundamental. Your brain is nearly three-quarters water, and it gets cranky when you treat it like a cactus. Dehydration can amplify anxiety, fog your memory, and make you feel like you're walking through a thick soup of disorientation. Drinking water—consistently and deliberately—isn’t just maintenance; it’s mental health insurance in a glass.
Making Room for Small Silences
Silence doesn’t get enough credit. In a society where productivity is proof of worth, doing “nothing” gets side-eyed. But making room for silence—even five minutes between tasks or a quiet walk without a podcast—is an act of rebellion and repair. It’s in those quiet pockets that your nervous system finds a little wiggle room to breathe, recalibrate, and remember that not every moment needs to be filled.
Establishing Rituals That Feel Like Home
Not routines. Rituals. The difference is intention. Routines are about efficiency; rituals are about meaning. Brushing your teeth with your favorite playlist on, lighting a candle before you journal, stretching while the coffee brews—these aren’t tasks, they’re tiny ceremonies. They root your day, offer predictability, and remind you that time can be soft and shaped to comfort rather than control.
Unconventional Tools for a Calmer Mind
Stress doesn’t always respond to the usual advice. Sometimes, it takes a more tailored approach to quiet the nervous system and ground the body. Consider trying a few lesser-known methods:
● Microdosing ashwagandha for steady cortisol support. Exploring THCa diamonds and user experiences for insights on holistic relaxation
● Using guided somatic release sessions
● Swapping caffeine for adaptogenic mushroom teas
Saying No Without Writing a Novel
This one’s tricky, especially if you’re wired to please or raised to accommodate. But boundaries aren’t fences—they’re invitations to connection that doesn’t drain you. Saying “no” without elaborate apologies or disclaimers is a skill that protects your energy and communicates self-respect. And the less guilt you attach to it, the freer your mind becomes from resentment and emotional debt.
Letting Yourself Be Bored
Remember boredom? That long stretch of stillness we used to fill with daydreams before smartphones gave us an escape hatch? Boredom is fertile. It’s where imagination stirs, and your brain has a chance to reorganize itself, make sense of things, and breathe without external input. Letting yourself be bored—even briefly—is a subtle but potent way to support emotional regulation and creative clarity.
Moving Your Body Without an Agenda
You don’t need to run marathons or punish yourself at the gym to feel better. In fact, the best movement for your mind is often the most joyful kind. A walk where you leave your phone at home. A ten-minute dance party in the kitchen. Yoga without tracking your flexibility. Moving your body without measuring, judging, or comparing resets your mood and reconnects you to the present moment in a way that’s pure and profound.
Talking to Yourself Like Someone You Love
You’d never call your best friend a failure for missing a workout or tell your sibling they’re worthless because they had a rough day. Yet that inner voice? Brutal. Changing how you talk to yourself—softening the inner monologue, questioning its cruelty, practicing compassion—isn’t cheesy, it’s essential. Your mind listens. It believes you. So say things worth believing.
Self-care isn’t always Instagrammable. It often looks like drinking lukewarm water from a chipped mug or canceling plans that sounded good last Tuesday. But each choice is a thread in the larger tapestry of your mental health. You’re not fixing yourself—you’re tending. You’re not perfecting—you’re practicing. And in that practice, you might just find something you forgot existed: ease.
What’s one thing you do to care for your mind on messy days? Share below to inspire others.
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